Russian ladies to sign up with the agencies
The main reason for the Russian ladies to sign up with the agencies is not to restrict their search to the territory of their country looking for their soul mate. To my mind a Russian women is serious about finding her soul mate is when Russian bride is registered with a couple of dating sites (she does not know from the beginning what is site is worth registering and what is not). Russian lady does not only sit and wait for her prince to arrive she starts acting and looking for him herself using the ways available to her. Such ladies do not care of they marry a Russian or a Western man they just seek love and happy family life with their soul mate.
It is quite easy for a Russian lady to find a boyfriend here and quite difficult to fine a husband here. Russian girls after 30 find it especially difficult. These ladies are eager to have children, they strive for stability and happy family life but local man like to live with girlfriend and they do not want to have family ties and build real relations based in marriage. A great majority of men is not willing to have children especially the second one. As it has become very expensive to have a second child and the government is of little support as far as this problem is concerned.
A great number of Russian men are bad fathers and it is very painful for Russian brides to realize this. Russian men prefer to put all the responsibility for their children on women’s shoulders and they do no want to care for their child, to love and to think of him as of a part of their lives. Western men are much more loving and caring to their child and not only to their children but to children is general being ready to accept a lady with her child and treating him as their own child is a usual thing for a Western man. Russian lady can be sure that if she married a Western man he will be not only a good father for her child but for their own children as well without any doubts.
Life in Russia is very unpredictable compared to that of Europe and America. That’s why Russian women leave their country. It is impossible to stand this constant unpredictability and instability.
Russian ladies want to forgive of their constant worries of what they will live on in several years, how to survive through one month. The living standard in Russia for average people is less then in all developed countries.
A great number of Russian ladies come to the agencies after their painful relations in marriages being already divorced. Being hurt, neglected and humiliated all the time wakens the desire to start everything from the beginning as if nothing has ever happened before. Russian women want to love and be loved and to know that there is a man who will love and care for them and they will feel protected.
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